Monday, February 8, 2010

Max is 1 week old!


Baby Max is one week old today! When I think back to the first week we had Jalen, it was all a blur. We had to feed him every 2 hours and each feeding took about an hour. I felt like a zombie from sleep deprivation. With Max, things are a little easier because we've been through this once before. However, around last Thursday Max started to develop jaundice. It made him very lethargic and he refused to nurse. I would try for 10 minutes to get him to nurse then finally giving up and feed him using a bottle. So I had to spend all day and all night pumping. Pumping is my least favourite thing to do. It's back breakingly uncomfortable and it means I'm not bonding with my baby. Max started phototherapy for his jaundice on Friday night, which means he's been confined to his bed except for feeding and diaper changes. There's a nurse that comes to our house everyday to check on him and draw blood for daily lab test for his billirubin level. His jaundice has been improving since Friday but he will probably stay on the light for another couple of days. The nurses are also certified lactation consultants so they helped to get Max nursing again. Which means, yay, no more pumping!

Max emerges from his phototherapy pod!

My three boys.

Max is starting to gain more baby fat!

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Introducing Max, aka "Speedy"!

Baby Locke #2 had a due date of Feb. 12, 2010. I had planned to work until Feb. 5, 2010 to give myself a week of head room. However, as of Jan. 27, I was already 4cm dilated. We were preparing for baby to arrive any day. In fact, I was quite anxious for baby to come because I was getting increasingly uncomfortable. On Sunday, Jan. 31, I spent 1 hour on the elliptical machine at the gym, hoping to get things kick started! However, to my disappointment, there was no sign of baby and I begrudgingly went to work on Monday.

On Monday Feb. 1 evening, I went to pick up Jalen at Ricky's parents house in Seattle and we went to a Sichuan restaurant for dinner. Around 7:30pm I started feeling slightly painful contractions. I had been getting Braxton Hicks contractions for a week, so I wasn't sure if this was the real thing or not. After dinner, I gave Ricky a call at 7:54pm to tell him to come into Seattle just in case. I was timing my contractions and they were coming around 2 - 4 minutes apart. However, they were still mild and I didn't have trouble getting through them.

Ricky got to his parents house around 8:30pm and suggested that we leave for the hospital right away. I didn't want to be overreacting so I paged the oncall doctor. She suggested we come in after I told her the contractions were 2 to 4 minutes apart. The worst thing that can happen is that they'd send me home. So I said good night to Jalen, and Ricky and I left for the hospital. I figured that we still had plenty of time because these contractions were nothing compared to what I remembered from the last time.

As soon as we got into the car, around 8:45pm, my contractions all of sudden became really intense. It took a lot of cursing and screaming just to get through them. I was thinking, oh my God, how did I get through these last time? By the time we got to the hospital, I was hanging on for dear life. Then, something felt strange and I thought the baby was coming. I felt the urge to push. I yelled to Rick, "something is happening!!" He drove the car to the ER entrance where he quickly summoned help. That strange feeling I had was my water breaking. The ER staff brought over a wheelchair. I took one look at it and thought "you've got to be kidding me". Rick said, no we need a stretcher. I don't know how they got me onto the stretcher but I just remember being wheeled into the hospital and up the elevators. I was grabbing onto the sides of the stretcher as I screamed through my contractions. I was doing my best to avoid pushing.

The triage nurse examined me and said, "oh, there's the baby". They were going to try to get me to the delivery room but thought better of it. Because in the next minute, the baby slipped out. I was not even pushing! I was in such shock. They handed the baby to me and Rick said "it's a boy!" I was sobbing from shock and relief. I can't believe what a close call that was. I was officially checked into the hospital at 9:05pm and the baby was born at 9:06pm. If we were just a few minutes later, I could have had the baby in the car!

Rick and I didn't know the sex of the baby ahead of time. We were not so secretly hoping for a girl and had finally settled on a girl name just days ago. But we still had no boy name! After getting to know our new baby son for a little while, we decided to call him "Max". Just Max, not short for anything. We like that it's different sounding than Jalen so he will be his own little man.

Welcome baby Max, mommy and daddy love you so much already!

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Big milestone for Jalen

On Jan. 8, 2010, we sent Jalen to daycare in underwear, not diapers! His school had suggested that we start and we were thinking the same thing since baby #2 is coming and we want to get Jalen off diapers. We knew the day had to come some time soon and we just had to suck it up and prepare ourselves to take the big step. He kept his pants dry on day 1 but then on day 2 had 3 accidents, i.e. wet/poopy pants. Now we've finished our 3rd full week of underwear training and he's doing really great. We take him to the bathroom to pee about every hour and we make him go #2 once or twice a day. He gets 2 treats for going #2 on the toilet. Every night, he gets to pick out which underwear to wear: cars? Thomas the tank engine? Elmo? We still put him in diapers during nap time and at night but lately he's been keeping his diaper dry through the night (10 - 12 hours).

The next big step for Jalen would be telling us that he needs to pee without us prompting him. He's already started doing that when he needs to be poop. Once he's able to go potty by himself then he'll gradate to preschool. That probably won't happen until he's around 3 years old but we're still so pleasantly surprised and proud of how great he's doing with potty training.

Saturday, January 9, 2010

Week 35


Baby #2 is due in just 5 weeks! So far, the third trimester has been a rough one. I'm suffering from terrible acid reflux and sometimes vomit twice a day. Although I have gained only 20 - 25lbs so far, it still feels like I'm carrying a watermelon with everywhere I go. On the other hand, I'm not retaining water the way I was with Jalen, which means I can still fit into all my shoes. :)

Here's a picture of me when I was 8 months pregnant with Jalen back in April, 2007.

Some pictures from Christmas






Friday, January 8, 2010

Getting ready for baby #2

It's T minus 5 weeks until baby #2 is due to join us. Last night, I had Rick set up the bassinet in our bedroom. This morning, Jalen walked into our room and saw it for the first time. This was how the conversation went:

Jalen: what's this?
Me: it's the bed for the baby.
Jalen: I want to go in it?
Me: no, you're too big. It's for the baby.
Jalen: you take it away!
Me: If I take it away, where is the baby going to sleep?
Jalen: the baby sleep on the floor!

Oh boy, I think this was the first preview of how Jalen is going to feel about the new baby. I can already envision the future:

Me to Rick: where is the baby?
Rick: look, it's on the floor!
Jalen: (guilty look on face)

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Thanksgiving


This year, we had an abundance of turkeys. Rick made 2 deep fried turkeys and Uncle Park got a roasted turkey from a Chinese BBQ restaurant. Yum!

Jalen and cousin Gracie read a Ni Hao Kai Lan book.

Jalen and Gracie get a pony ride on Grant.